Online Grief & Loss Counselling

Grief is love with nowhere to go. Counselling can't remove the loss — but it can help you carry it, and slowly rebuild a life around it.

RCI REGISTERED · 19+ YEARS EXPERIENCE · CONFIDENTIAL

Grief is the natural response to losing someone or something deeply important — a person, a relationship, a pregnancy, health, or a future you had planned. It is not an illness to cure, and there is no correct timeline. But grief can become stuck: months or years on, the pain may remain as raw as the first week, or life may quietly shrink around the loss.

Grief counselling offers a space where nothing has to be managed or performed — where the loss can be spoken about as much, and as often, as you need. From there, gently and at your pace, we work on carrying the loss differently: honouring what was, while making room for what still can be.

Common Symptoms

  • Waves of intense sadness, longing, or yearning for who was lost
  • Disbelief or difficulty accepting the loss is real
  • Guilt — about things said or unsaid, done or undone
  • Anger at circumstances, others, yourself, or the person who died
  • Numbness, or feeling disconnected from life and people
  • Loss of interest in things that used to matter
  • Sleep and appetite changes, exhaustion, difficulty concentrating
  • Avoiding reminders — or holding on to them intensely
  • Feeling life has lost meaning or direction since the loss

Common Causes

  • Death of a loved one — expected or sudden
  • Pregnancy loss, miscarriage, or infertility grief
  • Divorce, separation, or the end of a defining relationship
  • Loss of health, ability, or independence
  • Job loss or the end of a career that shaped identity
  • Migration and the quiet grief of leaving home and community
  • Anticipatory grief while caring for someone seriously ill

How Therapy Helps

Grief counselling doesn’t rush you through stages or ask you to “move on.” It provides steady, compassionate space to process the loss — and evidence-based support when grief becomes stuck or complicated. Research shows grief-focused therapy meaningfully reduces prolonged grief symptoms and helps people re-engage with life without betraying the memory of what they lost.

Online sessions suit grief work well: you can grieve openly in your own space, without composing yourself for a waiting room, and continue sessions consistently even when travel, caregiving, or low energy make leaving home hard.

  • Sessions from your own home — no commute, no waiting room
  • Globally accessible — work with the same therapist wherever you are
  • Sessions in English and Malayalam
  • Schedule around work, parenting, or time zones
  • Continuity if you travel or relocate
  • Strictly confidential, secure video sessions

Our Treatment Approach

We follow your lead. For some, counselling is primarily a space to speak of the person and the loss without worrying about burdening family. For others, we work more actively — on guilt, unfinished conversations, meaning, and the practical rebuilding of routines and identity.

Where grief is prolonged or complicated — locked in place months or years on — we use structured, evidence-based grief therapy techniques, always with warmth and without judgement about how long healing takes.

Grief-focused therapyCBTMeaning reconstructionMindfulnessCompassion-focused work

Who This Is For

  • Anyone grieving the death of a loved one, recent or long past
  • Parents processing miscarriage, stillbirth, or pregnancy loss
  • People navigating divorce or the end of a defining relationship
  • Those grieving health, ability, or an imagined future
  • Caregivers experiencing anticipatory grief
  • Anyone whose grief feels stuck, frozen, or unbearable months on
  • People supporting grieving children while grieving themselves

Meet Your Specialists

Ms. Salini Cicily Augustine
Counselling Psychologist specialising in adult mental health, anxiety, and postpartum support.
Ms. Minna Mathew
Founder & Senior Clinical Psychologist. RCI Registered.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is grief counselling only for recent loss?

Not at all. Many people seek counselling months or years after a loss — often when grief resurfaces at anniversaries, life milestones, or a new loss. Old grief responds to counselling just as recent grief does.

How do I know if my grief is “normal” or something more?

There is no normal timeline. But if, many months on, the pain remains as acute as the earliest days, daily functioning hasn’t begun to return, or life has stopped feeling worth engaging with, that may indicate prolonged grief — which responds well to structured support.

Will counselling make me forget or “get over” the person?

No — and it shouldn’t. The goal of grief counselling is not to erase the bond but to change your relationship with the loss: carrying the person with you in a way that allows living, rather than a wound that prevents it.

I feel guilty about things I did or didn't do. Can counselling help?

Yes. Guilt is one of the most common and most painful threads of grief, and one counselling addresses directly — examining those thoughts with compassion and realism, and finding ways to make peace with imperfection.

Is it okay to laugh or feel happy while grieving?

Completely. Grief is not constant sadness — it comes in waves, and moments of joy are not disloyalty. Counselling helps normalise the full, contradictory range of what grieving actually feels like.

Can grief affect me physically?

Yes — exhaustion, chest heaviness, appetite changes, and sleep disruption are extremely common. Grief is a whole-body experience, and looking after physical wellbeing is part of the work.

Ready to take the first step?

Taking the first step is easier than you think — no pressure, just a conversation.